He told me about his ex-girlfriend of four years, who repeatedly cheated on him every time he was on a mission.
Everything I'm saying was supported by voice notes, his tone, his words sounded so genuine and every time I showed him doubts about this online, he begged me to give him a chance at least to meet up.
He was always calm and sweet, ready to placate me with lovely words that every girl on Earth would love to be told - even the smartest! I mean, I suspected once in a while he might have chatted with some other girls as we never physically met but I never doubted he was totally into me.
I stressed my total disagreement with any kind of "friends with benefits relationship" and told him that I was possibly looking for a stable relationship.
He soon apologized and told me he was new on Tinder and didn't know what I was actually looking for and that he feared I might have still been in touch with other guys or my ex.
When he saw the comment he totally went mad and told me I was inappropriate as "Instagram is not a place to get into fights with random people." I was pretty surprised at his reaction and told him commenting on his picture after he claimed he loved me for two months did not seem that wrong to me.
I soon realized he'd deactivated the account, then he said he was about to go on a night operation and he would message me later. I was worried but kept telling myself that if his phone was off he was probably unable to answer due to security reasons (it had happened during the two months but not for more than a couple of days).He convinced me (and I convinced myself) we were actually dating and that he was my man.I shared with him intimate details of my past life, photos of me and my family, and even worse...private pictures.It was just a way to kill time and exchange stories with my girlfriends but one morning I happened to swipe right on a 28-year-old American guy, objectively handsome and he immediately matched me. We swapped numbers on Whats App very quickly and I appreciated that.His profile description looked very smart and trustworthy, a nice good-looking guy looking for a smart, independent and strong woman. He was super sweet and willing to show me pictures plus give information related to his life and job.The day after his phone was off so I thought he must be in mission. After eight days, I totally went crazy as I had no way whatsoever to touch base with him at least to make sure he was okay and not hurt.