Us white oral bottoms have our place, and its their wifey/gf's loss! What is up with all of these Black men on the DL in Detroit?
Yes, sufficient other, meaning wife, girfriend, fiance.
Yes, they call themselves "Straight", yet have the desire to be with other "Straight" men.
You can't help but second guess yourself when seeing any black man on the street whether he is alone, with his wife, his friends, his preacher or his boss. The people he talks about being on the DL are prominent people in society-- lawyers, ministers, artists, fathers, husbands, boyfriends, homophobes. Nothing against being gay but the double life and deceit is a bit much to handle. If someone chooses to be down-low, low-down, gay, bi-sexual, or anything else that could cause major issues in a relationship, be an adult and bring it up with the person you say you care about. King wanted the cake, the icing, the glass of milk, and to eat and drink them all.
You can't help but second guess yourself when seeing any black man on the street whether he is alone, with his wife, his friends, his preacher or his boss. That would stop all the pretense and fear of being caught out. I find this book to be full of excuses for a man to play both sides (in this case, his unsuspecting wife and his play-friends).
Its nothing like Atlanta Detroit is full of frustrate DL men, afraid to admitt their real feelings ,because one moust remain "Hard" to make it in the streets. The reason is straight from the source themselves, their wives don't give head any more, and if they do , its a chore to them, SNF they do a lousy job!
Trust I have gay male friends n family n I actually go to the gay clubs here. Speaking from experience and dating black men exclusively for 20 years there are more married black men I see versus single black men!King also discusses the potential health consequences of having unprotected sex, as African American women represent an alarming 64 percent of new HIV infections.Volatile yet vital," On the Down Low "is sure to be one of the most talked-about books of the year.The writing for me - though it was a fast read - felt jumbled and paragraphs and sections seemed to be out of place.So essentially the writing and To say that I did not like this book would be an understatement. For this book I decided to break down how I rated this book based on content, likeability, editing and writing. Damn idiot obviously ur not from Detroit or you would know a) those are strippers and watts mozambique is one of the male strip clubs here b) the dance is called hip rolling started by THE MALE strippers is not gay at all. The gay scene here isn't even that big let a lone dl guys being so big either.