Again, while I liked him, I learned that he was not an upfront person, and Still, I learned a lot from that situation.Even though my friends and I swore that we would never date men with children, I’m learning that having kids doesn’t automatically make you unsuitable for dating.Don’t go talking about the girl’s favorite band as if you listen to it, because she probably knows that you don’t and you will look like a fool trying to get in.
Ladies listen, this man did not get used to a kid screaming like you did, he was not kept up nights tending to the crying and projectile poop, he isn’t seasoned in this.
Above all else, including your want for a mate is your child’s safety.
He was still a person, and I would feel bad if I didn’t give him a chance just because he had a kid. However, I learned there was another child later on, an infant only six months old.
I had to do the math because something wasn’t adding up.
Kids can be great bonuses to meeting someone new and they can also be nightmares just as easily.
When a man gets older he realizes that the chance of meeting a childless woman thins dramatically and the question of “how” may come to his mind in dealing with a child that isn’t his.
We exchanged account names for social media, and I learned through his Instagram that he had a daughter. I thought about what I had said when I was in college: A man with kids is a no-no. I don’t want to be groomed to be a child’s stepmother.
But then I had to think about dating from the perspective of a parent.
Shutterstock When I was younger, during my college days, my friends and I swore that we would never date a man with children. Like me, he was interested in making healthy lifestyle choices.