What if each of these ‘dates’ end up costing that man – 0 per date?
Or would you be willing to be rejected AFTER you have already spent $150 – $200 or more over the course of a few days or a few weeks? WHY ARE THERE SO FEW DATING COACHES WHO PROMOTE BEING DIRECT WITH WOMEN?
The truth is, the vast majority of professional dating coaches, seduction gurus, and pickup artists are afraid to endorse and exclusively promote a style of approaching women and conversing with women that is representative of the ‘direct’ approach. Because many single heterosexual men are looking for a method of attracting women and seducing women that will not subject them to a) immediate and/or harsh rejection, b) harsh, subjective criticisms and personal insults from women, and/or c) adverse reactions and responses from women in general.
This is why it’s important to know how men and women approach dating in completely different ways.
Dating can bring out a woman’s analytical side, there’s no doubt about it.
But are we really from different planets altogether?
When it comes to dating, the genders have more in common than we think, but we definitely have different perspectives.Let’s say you were at a party or nightclub, and you identified a woman who you viewed as very physically attractive and sexually appealing.And let’s also say that your number one objective was to engage in some form of short-term and/or non-monogamous sex with this woman in the near future (e.g., one-night stand, weekend fling, Friends-with-Benefits type arrangement, etc.); What would be the very first thing that you would say to this woman?For the most part, women still want men to approach them, message first, and ask them out.They want men to take charge of planning and paying for the date, at least when they meet for the first time.They want time to show this woman that they are a charming, charismatic, pleasant, polite, and overall ‘good’ human being.